A few notes and poems from admiring women remain in the archives,
although legend has it that a loyal assistant removed most of these
from Brown’s desk after his death. Brown’s roving eye was not lost on
his second wife, Lilian, who in a letter to a friend compared the
polygamous traditions of the East with those of the West. “After all,
this is better than the Christian way of living,” she wrote. “Our men
have many wives on the side, and the only thing that makes it wrong is
the fact that they might be found out??????”
Lilian was apparently ready to forgive Brown some of his wanderings.
As Brown’s daughter, Frances, relates in a self-published 1987
biography, Let’s Call Him Barnum, he and Lilian married in 1922 in
India, where Lilian was ostensibly on a world tour with an aunt. “The
more likely scenario was that she, like others before her, had decided
that Barnum was the husband she wanted, and if he would not come after
her, she would go after him, even if it meant crossing a couple of
continents.”
Lonely, and as his daughter states, “ripe for the plucking,” more
than a decade after the death of his first wife, Marion, in 1910, Brown
rushed to meet Lilian in Calcutta “and quickly decided to make her his
wife.” Lilian, no doubt, expected to be whisked away on a romantic
Oriental honeymoon, but as his daughter relates, “that Barnum was not
youthfully starry-eyed and glowing over this marriage” was clear from
his choice of activities for the nuptial reception: “The bride and
groom spent the afternoon of their wedding day in the chairs of the
only two English dentists in Calcutta. To Barnum this was just a
routine practicality.”
With Brown, fossils almost always came first, and Lilian quickly
adapted, helping to collect and keep records in the field for her
husband. Health risks were rampant: In the lowlands of Burma, Brown
contracted malaria, but his wife saved his life with round-the-clock
nursing until his fever broke. Their marriage lasted for 40 years,
until Brown’s death in 1963, probably because Lilian possessed a streak
of independence almost as wide as her husband’s. After their wedding,
she set off on her own to Kashmir for a solitary honeymoon. Along the
way, she caught the eye of an eminent maharaja, who lavishly
entertained her and permitted her to interact with his harem—an honor
not previously bestowed upon any westerner.
As colorful as Brown’s adventures were, they are now largely
forgotten, while his fossil finds are more prominent than ever. His
discoveries permeate the American Museum of Natural History, whether
one casually strolls through the public exhibition spaces or rummages
intently through the cloistered collections. When the museum renovated
its fossil halls in the 1990s and its dinosaur storerooms in 2000, we
faced the daunting task of conserving and moving Brown’s magnificent
collection. It was humbling to see firsthand how many of the specimens
that draw millions of visitors to the museum each year were unearthed
through Brown’s efforts. Of the 80-odd specimens in the renovated
halls, 32 were found by Brown and his field crews.